To The Parents Of The Child Who Should Be Starting Kindergarten — They Can Join My Classroom

Summer is winding down and I’m gearing up for a new school year. Yesterday, I sat down to finish my mailing for my new Kindergarten students. I worked my way through the list, personalizing each letter with my student’s name (I feel like it adds a little extra love when you put pen to paper … More To The Parents Of The Child Who Should Be Starting Kindergarten — They Can Join My Classroom

I Know That My Baby Died, So Stop Pretending It’s A Secret

  I’m the lady with the dead baby. It’s okay, I’m allowed to be so blunt because it’s my truth.  I am the lady whose baby died. One day my baby was living and the next day she died.  That is what happened.  It doesn’t offend me if you acknowledge this. It offends me when … More I Know That My Baby Died, So Stop Pretending It’s A Secret

I Never Know When I’m Going To Miss You And It Happens All The Time

I never know when I will miss you. I can’t ever predict just what will grip my heart with the reminder that you are gone.  It could be anything.  Anytime.  Anywhere. Because I am reminded of you everywhere. I remember you are gone when I’m in a room full of people and I notice you … More I Never Know When I’m Going To Miss You And It Happens All The Time

A Letter To The Woman I Was Before Pregnancy and Infant Loss

  Dear Beautiful and Innocent Former Self, You will not believe where life has taken us and what life has taken from us.  If I stood in front of you today and told you our story of child loss and grief, you would probably stare back at me in disbelief.   You might not think it … More A Letter To The Woman I Was Before Pregnancy and Infant Loss

“Let Us Be The Whale”: A Grieving Mother’s Request

The recent story of the orca whale grieving her calf has evoked powerful emotions.  People everywhere are marveling at the innate connection that this whale has with her offspring.  It is nature in its most pure and simple form.  I agree. As a grieving mother, my heart bursts forward at the sight of this brave … More “Let Us Be The Whale”: A Grieving Mother’s Request

July Is Bereaved Parents Month–How You Can Support The Bereaved Parent In Your Life

Even if you have a loved one who has experienced the loss of a child, you may not know that July is Bereaved Parents Months.  In the loss community there will be opportunities for bereaved parents to share and connect with other parents of loss.  But what you might notice is that even with all … More July Is Bereaved Parents Month–How You Can Support The Bereaved Parent In Your Life

Why We Choose To Grieve Online And The One Thing You Can Do To Support Us

The online loss community is huge.  Right now, if you asked me to, I could give you the names of at least 100 bereaved parents I have met online.  And those, are just the ones I’m close to. Although social media can be wrought with triggers, many of us choose to grieve online.  Participating in … More Why We Choose To Grieve Online And The One Thing You Can Do To Support Us